UK’s ‘longest-suffering Covid patient’, 49, tragically dies following 14-and-a-half month battle after deciding to withdraw all treatment because he ‘could not live like this anymore’
- Jason Kelk, 49, was admitted to St James’ Hospital in Leeds on March 31, 2020
- This morning he was transported to nearby hospice, where he spent final hours
- His heartbroken wife Sue Kelk, 63, said Jason’s battle had become too much
The UK’s ‘longest-suffering Covid-19 inpatient’ has tragically died following a 14-and-a-half battle in hospital.
Jason Kelk, 49, opted to withdraw all treatment after deciding he could not ‘live like this anymore’ in St James’ Hospital in Leeds, West Yorkshire.
He was first admitted on March 31 last year – just one day after TV presenter Kate Garraway’s husband Derek Draper.
He remained there ever since, until this morning when he was transported to a nearby hospice, where he spent his final hours surrounded by his family.
His heartbroken wife Sue Kelk, 63, said her husband’s battle had become too much and that he had come to the decision to withdraw all treatment.
Jason Kelk, 49, (pictured) opted to withdraw all treatment after deciding he could not ‘live like this anymore’ in St James’ Hospital in Leeds, West Yorkshire
His heartbroken wife Sue Kelk, 63, (pictured her wedding day with Mr Kelk and her daughter) said her husband’s battle had become too much and that he had come to the decision to withdraw all treatment
Paying tribute to her ‘soulmate’ of 20 years, Mrs Kelk added: ‘It was so peaceful. It was definitely important for him to do it on his terms.
‘But he is leaving an awful lot of people absolutely bereft.
‘People might not think he has been brave but my God, he has been brave. I really think he has.
‘And I just think that this is the bravest thing that you could ever do – to actually say “I don’t want to live like this anymore”.’
Mr Kelk – who had type II diabetes and asthma – was admitted to hospital on March 31. Just days later, on April 3, he was transferred to intensive care.
He remained there ever since, fighting for his life on numerous occasions after the virus ravaged his lungs and destroyed his kidneys.
Mr Kelk went on to develop such severe stomach issues that he was having to be fed intravenously when he died.
There was hope in March this year when he marked 15 days in a row without the use of a ventilator.
He was taken off a 24/7 kidney filter and was enjoying outdoor family visits in the hospital grounds once a week.
At the time he revealed his hopes of returning to his home in Leeds, saying he wanted to ‘sit on our sofa and eat take away fish and chips with Sue while we watch telly’.
However, he did add: ‘I’ve lost hope on a few occasions, mainly because even now the destination I’m working towards seems so far away.’
As Mr Kelk’s recovery continued, he was able to drink cups of tea and eat cake, as well return to one of his passions – computer coding.
But at the beginning of May he took a turn for the worse and ended up having to spend a few days on and off the ventilator before going on to develop two infections.
Mrs Kelk said her husband ‘never really recovered’ from them.
He was left needing the ventilator full-time again three weeks ago and Mrs Kelk said it was at that point he decided he had had enough.
She said: ‘He just wanted it all to come to an end. The antibiotics had worked but his spirit had gone.’
Mrs Kelk added: ‘I think really Jason from February 2020 disappeared. That’s the Jason we knew. But the Jason everybody loved was still very much there.
‘I think I have been preparing for myself since the beginning. Not that I haven’t believed he could do it.
‘In the last few weeks before his relapse I was just beginning to go ‘maybe I can hope now’ and then I got kicked in the teeth.’
Mr Kelk was surrounded by his wife as well as his mum, dad and sister when he died this morning.
Mrs Kelk (pictured) said she will miss his sense of humour and him ‘just being there’ the most
He leaves behind five stepchildren and eight grandchildren – two born this past year who he has never met – and another on the way.
Mrs Kelk said she will miss his sense of humour and him ‘just being there’ the most, adding: ‘[My daughter] Katie wrote a beautiful poem about him and said we were soulmates and that’s exactly what we were.
‘We finished each other’s sentences half the time. We just knew instinctively what the other one wanted. We just complemented each other.’
‘It certainly has been a very fun life with him. We have done some fun things – but we had lots of things that we were going to do.’
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