My girlfriend doesn’t let me contact my best pal because of past affair – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend hates my best friend. It’s taking a toll on me.

For both of us, this is our first serious lesbian relationship. We’ve been together for six months and love one another deeply.

But it’s led to me neglecting my best friend from school.

She is straight but we messed about briefly before I met my girlfriend – which my girlfriend knows about.

She has her own friends but she says it kills her that I am in contact with my pal and she guilt-trips me.

We are all in our mid-twenties.

My friend is angry and says my girlfriend is not treating me with respect.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Reassure your girlfriend that your best friend is just a mate now.

But don’t let her be controlling like this.

It won’t go well long-term.

If she sulks or complains, say you are sorry she feels that way but stick with your plans.

My e-leaflet Dealing With Jealousy explains.

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