I'm shy about sex but would love to try new things in bed with my husband

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN it comes to sex, I’m a bit shy but I would love to try new things in the bedroom.

I know my husband would too but he doesn’t like to ask me.

My ex raped me on a daily basis and my husband thinks that asking for something sexual would put pressure on me, but that’s not the case.

I’m 43 and my husband is 45. We have been together for 12 years and have two children between us. I also have two from my previous relationship.

We try to have sex at least once a day.

My parents both died when I was very young too and when I bring it up, my husband says he knows what I’ve been through and he’s happy with things the way they are.

But I want to do this for us.

My ex took so much from me and I refuse to let him have anything more.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Well done for being determined not to let your past rule your present.

Good sex is really about communication and takes practice.

Ask your husband what works for him and tell him what you would like to try.

My e-leaflet, 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex, will give you lots of ideas but only try what you find pleasurable yourself or it won’t work for either of you.

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